Building Self-Confidence Wins
Have you ever had so much motivation that the world is going to fall into place? You know you listen to the guru’s and think wow, OMG, YES!!! have you considered your Self-Confidence and how it is kept up afterward. Or at any time in your life.
Then a few days, weeks later you have not moved on? There are some amazing Motivational speakers out there and they are awesome, yet the missing link is the confidence, the confidence to move forward and make it work.
You have one thing in your favor and that is you. As a unique person, you can do as you like where and when you like.
Many will think, sure it’s not that easy, after all, what if?, How about and I’m unsure.
Hey, we all feel like that it’s how we change the way we think and decide the future.
Just think of this,
- Did you have to go to school?
- Have you a driver’s license?
- Ever asked a question?
Chances are you said Yes to all Three
Do you realize you had to have the self-confidence to do all 3? None of them needed much motivation as they are just a normal part of life.
The same as
Where people seem to get confused at is the fact they need to the motivation to get ahead. Yet how much of what we do each day is just an expectation, normal, we have to do this mindset.
Like when running 7 days a week, after clocking up many kilometers each week, it was something which was part of life. It was normal to run at least 100 kilometers (62 miles) a week. Was it motivation, no it was just something I enjoyed to do.
Then the 2 guys I shared a house with said: “Why not do the Melbourne Marathon?” If you only saw my face.
Then thinking about it overnight was it possible to run 42 kilometers (26 miles) in one hit? Why not and the plan was in place.
The motivation was the fact I ran so much and could be possible
The self-confidence was always on my mind
Even on the day of running the marathon it nearly changed as the mind was saying no you can’t, yes you can. Do the 1/2 marathon.
Instead, I looked at others and thought, well why not? Now when you register you have a position for either runner who has previously run marathons to your first marathon.
My position was to be in the back rows as never run a marathon before. So been me, where did I start. In the 3rd row from the front.
Hey, why not? but as I found out they run very fast, lol.
Now I’m not telling you to run a marathon. This is from building Confidence from a guy who has bad damage c6-c7 (spine)
What Can You Do?
I’m all for motivation and even more interested in Self-Confidence. There may be 100 people reading this post right now who have attended or watched an amazing Motivation Course, seminar etc,
- 80% attended and have learned something
- 20% have motivation and make changes
- 4% will kill it and be leaders in their field/s
So whats up with the 80% there are so many people who think they are in the right space and make a difference in their life. Yet, they are doubting their confidence. That 20% is pretty awesome and doing what it takes to make a difference in their life. It may not be huge, yet they have taken action. Now that 4% saw what was needed, the motivation and now have the self-confidence to do what it takes.
So whats with that 20% and 4%?
Maybe it’s their makeup, DNA? Chances are they don’t just look and watch they decide what is needed. They are those people that are ready to do…
Now, your thinking, but how do I? What if? How about?
If you are thinking like that, then you will always be part of that 80%.
Just say you wanted to start a Pet shop selling pet products. Now you may think, OMg there are set up costs, a building, advertising, stock, accountant etc. Right? There are a small number of these shops as the owners are prepared to take action.
You’re still thinking about it, Right?
So your not that self-confident, about it working. This is how the new economy is working. If you want to become part of the 20% you need to start now.
In the above case, start part-time and work on creating a website/blog. The cost?
- Your time
- A website
- Your time
Then instead of having a shop on the corner or in a shopping mall. All of a sudden you are working from home with an audience around the world. A certain percentage are looking for pet items. This is where you build your confidence, get a website, test the waters, become an affiliate to places like Amazon etc so for no cost you are learning how this business is for you, with
- No stock
- 24/7 Customers
- Work from home
- Making a living at home
If you look at the majority of people working online today. It’s not from having the corner store. It is from the internet. The lifeblood of the future.
When you want to start something, you will either have the stuff to make it work in the physical world and or online.
A great place for many people to make a difference is online.
Your confidence drives your surroundings. TV, Radio, family, friends, workmates etc. Just spend one day and not say much just listen to the type of conversation.
If it’s negative, then its time to change where you are at. Create Self-Confidence in your day to day activities.
When you look at the 4% who are making a difference in this world. Do you think they sit around and talk about the negatives? No, it might mention, in fact, they are talking about how to improve and make a difference to their life.
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